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Art of Manliness FAQ

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1. What makes you experts on manliness?

We’ve never said we’re experts. In fact, the idea that there’s such a thing as an “expert in manliness” is sort of silly. We’re just two people who are passionate about helping men become better men. We want to provide an alternative men’s magazine for men who are tired of the crap that’s put out for men by most media outlets. We see our role as researchers and writers who try to dig up the best information out there and make that info available to readers. I’m learning right along with everyone else.

2. If this is a blog about manliness, why do you have a woman writing on it?

Because my wife is awesome. That’s why. But seriously, my wife Kate is a very talented writer and editor. Her degree in history has been an important asset to our site with its focus on using the past as inspiration for men today. She also helps me take care of the myriad of administrative and side jobs that the blog entails. So I’m not going to let my “manly” pride get in the way of including someone who does such great stuff for the site.

Moreover, I think it’s good to get a woman’s perspective on what they think manliness means. As a man, I’m sometimes too close to the subject of manliness to be able to articulate things and put into words what is a lived experience. Kate acts as a sort of anthropologist, studying things from the outside, and this distance gives her a different set of observations and insights. Woven together, I think our perspectives provide a much richer perspective on manhood.

3. Is this a Christian blog?

Although the Art of Manliness encourages men to live moral, ethical, and virtuous lives, AoM is not a Christian blog. Christianity and religion in general do not have a monopoly on morality or virtuous living. There is a void on the internet for websites that talk about having principles but do so in a secular manner. The Art of Manliness hopes to fill that void and welcomes readers of any creed or faith, or of no faith at all.

4. What is manliness anyway? Doesn’t some of what you talk about apply to women too?

Read this article for our definition of manliness.

5. Why are so many of the pictures you use with articles of white guys? Aren’t men of color manly too?

Of course! While it’s true that there are more white faces than those of color, this simply reflects what’s available to us with the vintage design-theme we have chosen for our blog. We can spend an hour or two searching for just the right picture for an article and when searching for vintage images, 98% of the results are for pictures of caucasian men. We wish there were more vintage pictures of men of color, but they’re quite hard to find. Whenever we come across a great picture of someone of color, we use it.

6. Is there a sister site to the Art of Manliness for women?

There does not currently exist a sister site to the Art of Manliness that’s aimed at women. It’s definitely a niche that needs filling, and Kate and I have talked about starting one, but right now AoM keeps us too busy to move on the idea.

7. If you don’t have the time to start a sister site yourselves, would you like to partner with me in starting one?

If the site were connected to AoM in any way, we’d like to have some oversight on it, and even here we just don’t have the time; really, it’s not even a matter of time, but not having the free bandwidth to keep tabs on another project.

Of course, there’s nothing stopping you from starting an Art of Womanliness-esque site on your own that’s not connected to AoM. If you do so, we wish you the best of luck in the endeavor!

8. Do you accept guest submissions?

Yes. Please read our Write for AoM page for details on how to submit a guest article.

9. I have a new blog and need some advice on getting traffic and making money on it. Can you give me some advice?

I unfortunately don’t have time to personally give advice on blogging. Here are some sites that offer solid suggestions on how to make a go at blogging that I would suggest thoroughly reading through — that’s how I learned!

10. I have a specific style/dressing question. Can you help me with it?

I unfortunately don’t have time to answer specific style/dressing questions that you may have. I highly recommend going through all of our dressing and grooming articles as well as visiting Real Men Real Style content.

11. Can I interview Brett for a podcast/blog post/etc?

My schedule currently doesn’t permit me to do interviews.

12. Does Brett do speaking engagements?


13. Have you written about “X”?

Before you ask us that, please run a search on our site. We’ve published over 3,500 articles in the past ten years. Chances are we’ve written about it.

14. Will you do a review of my product/book?

We do not do product or book reviews on the site. If you send me a book, and it looks interesting, I may contact you to set up a podcast interview. Otherwise, you will not receive a reply.

15. Why a I getting notifications from you on my phone? Make it stop! 

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