In How to Build Your Wardrobe Part I we discussed why a man’s clothing is important, broke men up into groups, and listed the clothing they need. In How to Build Your Wardrobe Part II we gave you 5 general wardrobe building guidelines and expanded on the clothing checklists. Now in How to Build your Wardrobe Part III, we’ll discuss hats, watches, and other accessories that add to a man’s presentation.
Four Simple Guidelines When Choosing Accessories
- Accessories add flavor to your clothing, but even great accessories cannot help a poor foundation – If you haven’t read Building a Wardrobe Parts I and II, please do so. I do not want you to form the impression that accessories stand alone – they do not. Think of them like a spice; they can only bring out the best in a dish that starts with quality ingredients.
- Quality is good, meaning is great, finding an heirloom that embodies both is perfect –Some accessories are special in that they have lived a life before you, and within them is a sense of history and quality impossible to find in something new. It’s a very lucky man who finds himself with his grandfather’s watch worn through World War II or a hat that was witness to Martin Luther King Jr. marching at Selma. Wearing a piece of history is special; it can give the wearer the strength to go out and create a bit of history himself.
- Use the accessory you purchase, and use it often - The writer Alan Flusser says it best in that the most expensive items a man owns are the ones he never uses. Ensure that the accessories you purchase for your wardrobe are ones that will stand the test of time and that you’ll find occasion to use. A handsome tie clip is wasted on the man who never wears a tie.
- Function first, style second….but not distant second– Most timeless men’s accessories serve a purpose – pay attention to performance first. If you have to pay a little extra for style, weigh your options and then take the plunge. You want something that not only works, but looks great doing its job.
A Man’s Accessories Overview
A Man and Hats
Building the Courage to Start Wearing a Hat – I won’t say that every man should have a hat in his wardrobe; however, I do think every man should strongly consider one, especially if it can practically serve him. Do you live in rainy Seattle? Consider a hat that will compliment your raincoat. Spending hours outside in the hot Tucson sun? Look for a lightweight and breathable hat that will shave 20 degrees off your day. Remember function first, style second……but don’t forget about style, as you want a hat that you love to wear.
Three reasons to consider wearing a hat –
- Hats are useful – The right hat protects a man from the elements and enhances the way he interacts with the world. They can keep the rain off your head, protect your chrome dome from the sun’s rays, and save a bad (or no) hair day. And amongst clothing and accessories, they are unique in their ability to communicate and convey respect for others. Tipping your hat to a lady or doffing it at a graveside service adds dignity to your comportment.
- A hat instantly sets you apart – Wearing a hat such as a fedora is rare these days, especially when worn properly and with confidence. Although I don’t advocate setting yourself apart by simply being “the hat guy,” if used correctly it can be a distinguishing feature that helps cement your place in a casual acquaintance’s memory bank. In the words of the great Las Vegas designer Nudie Cohen “Better to be looked over than overlooked.”
- Hats increase your perceived height – Hats create the illusion of added height; in one study men who wore hats were on average granted an extra two and one half inches by observers asked to guess their height. Why is this important? Because height commands respect and authority in a first encounter. Just ask any tall man who is used to being the first person people see when he enters a crowded room or on the other extreme a short man who can often feel overlooked.
More information about hat types, where to buy, and men to contact for detailed discussions:
Two AOM classics – Bringing Back the Hat and The Perfect Hat for Your Face
Two great posts by Chicago style blogger Salvador Ortega – Style Upgrade: Fedora & Penman Hats
Our old friend the Houndstooth Kid weighs in – The Fedora at a Glance & What About Hats
Finally, two great forum/lounge sites to discuss the intricacies of wearing hats with other men:
The Fedora Chronicles & The Fedora Lounge
Drop the Baseball Cap – Wear a Real Hat!
Basic Hat Etiquette – A hat can be worn outdoors at athletic events, while riding public transportation and while in the lobbies and elevators of public buildings. Take the hat off when you enter a home, during a meal, at work (assuming you are indoors), when indoors and conversation is expected, and when you wish to show reverence (for example when meeting a religious leader or the playing of a national anthem). The key point to remember is that it covers part of the head and this can make you seem “aloof” and “distant;” understanding this, you can judge the situation and make the decision to wear the hat or take it off anywhere.
Male Jewelry – Watches, Rings, Cufflinks, and Bracelets
I’ll address each of these separately –
Timepieces : A Man’s Watch-It has been argued that with all the electronic gadgets we surround ourselves with, the man’s watch as an accessory is becoming antiquated. I’m not going to take a stance either way, but as of 2010 a timepiece worn on the wrist is still a classic accessory. If a man enjoys wearing a watch, he should have at least two in his wardrobe – one for sport and one for more formal occasions. The general rule is the more simple the watch, the more versatile and formal it is. Digital watches with plastic bands are for sport while large timepieces with multiple moving hands, gauges and metal bands are for the office. The most formal watches are simple timepieces with a single set of hands and leather band. If you’re attending a black tie event, forgo the watch altogether; the logic here is that a gentleman does not worry about time at galas such as these.
Rings – Wedding rings are always permissible to be worn. Beyond that, rings are a matter of taste, and depending on your choice of ring and environment, they can symbolize membership, wealth, or in some people’s eyes, excess and extravagance. Both school and fraternal rings are fairly common in the US, and rarely raise an eyebrow. However, beyond two rings a man’s hands start to look adorned, especially if he has relatively small hands. I wouldn’t wear more than two rings, preferably one on each hand.
Cufflinks – If a man owns a French cuff shirt he needs cufflinks and/or cuff knots. The number you need depends more on how flashy your cufflinks are instead of how many shirts actually need them (although a general guideline is two sets for every shirt that requires them). The logic here is that simple conservative cufflinks, such as plain silver or solid colored knots, draw little attention to themselves and create a positive but not deeply memorable impression. A set of Elvis cufflinks on the other hand are going to be remembered and are therefore limited in how often they can be worn. I advise you start your collection with simple, timeless designs; once you have three or so sets of links and perhaps 6 inexpensive knots, then you can introduce a few fun cufflinks.
Bracelets – Generally speaking, bracelets are a tricky area for men. In many cultures around the world they once symbolized power and position . But today a jeweled bracelet on a man is more of a fashion trend and not something I recommend for the average guy. As for “charity wristbands,” you should only wear a band for a cause you really believe in.
Sunglasses
Your sunglasses should be clean and compliment both your face and the situation you’ll be wearing them in. I recommend that a man have at least two pairs of sunglasses in his wardrobe – a classic, quality pair for every day use that can be worn with either a suit or polo shirt and a cheaper, disposable pair that can be worn in situations where the likelihood of them never being seen again is high (boating on Lake Travis). If you are active in outdoor sports, you’ll at some point want to consider a pair of athletic wrap-around sunglasses. However, understand these sport sunglasses should not be worn with business attire.
Volcano Sport, Wayfarer & Aviator Sunglasses
Good quality sunglasses are not cheap – in fact it took me a decade of putting up with bad eyewear before I finally bought a pair of Maui Jims. However, like with most things, once you buy quality you’ll find it lasts longer, especially when you take better care of it. Purchase a protective case and use non-scratch pads for cleaning the lenses. I used to go through 2 or 3 cheap pairs of sunglasses a year – it’s now year 5 for my Ka’Anapalis and they only have one very minor scratch and look as great as they did when I first purchased them. Quick note – know what you want when it comes to shades, and always be looking for clearance deals. They can be found!
Tie Bars, Tie Chains, and Tie Tacks
The tie bar and its cousins are a great example of an accessory that serves a purpose – it keeps your tie from flying over your shoulder on a windy street and from falling into your food at a meal. Tie bars also can add a bit of pizzazz to an otherwise dull ensemble and a simple stripe of gold, silver, or some other metal is always acceptable. I prefer to wear a tie clip at an angle to counteract the rigidity they connote. Other variations include the tie chain, which works in much the same manner, but instead of a fixed bar holding your tie in place, you have a drooping chain. The least favorable variant is the tie tack, as that it requires poking a hole in the tie which can damage a silk. I do not recommend the tie tack unless you are wearing it with a knitted woolen tie. If you own more than a few ties and wear a tie daily, throwing in a couple tie clips is a great way to add flavor to your suit, shirt, and tie.
The Pocket Square
A tastefully folded pocket square placed in the suit jacket’s breast pocket can lend some color and panache to an otherwise boring navy suit. For the first three suits a man owns, he should have three pocket squares for each, the first two being a solid cotton and silk white. Past that, it’s a matter of taste and personality. As we’ve written entire articles about this already, I’ll simply point to an Introduction to Pocket Squares and How to Fold a Pocket Square for more information.
Wallets and Money Clips
Which wallet you choose depends on your needs. If you’re a frequent traveler, a billfold that is large enough for a passport, pen, and various other incidentals is handy. A slim billfold that fits in the back pocket, however, is more suited for daily use. Just remember that if you have the space, you’ll fill it. Therefore the best way to avoid walking around with two inches of backside bulge is to own a wallet that doesn’t tolerate that type of expansion.
3 different wallet sizes found over at Saddleback Leather Co.
Money clips are a great alternative to carrying a billfold; they fit naturally in the front pocket (a more secure area) and force you to trim down what you carry. In doing so, a money clip helps eliminate the danger of carrying all your eggs in one basket – when a pickpocket strikes you’ve lost a little bit of cash vs. your social security card and a half dozen credit cards.
Briefcases, Notebook Cases, and Handbags
I recommend you have at least one simple dark colored briefcase in your wardrobe. Leather is a classic choice, and black or dark brown are safe colors. If you are a professional who frequently travels for business, you should strongly consider owning two briefcases, a small one for daily use and another larger one that can hold a week’s worth of paperwork and your laptop computer. In levels of formality, dark colors and a simple build are more formal than light colors and bags with all types of straps and pockets.
The case on the bottom left is casual – the case on the top left is more formal
The Boutonnière
A flower is the simplest, least used, and in my opinion most perfect accessory a man can add to compliment his clothing. It requires strength to wear, its life is short, it has a storied history, and on a spring day it can be found for free. A boutonnière is properly worn on the left breast, near the heart, and keeping it simple and subtle is the key to pulling it off.
Final Note on Accessories
Accessories are like the service and ambiance surrounding a fine meal – they add to and enrich the experience. The finest accessories in the world cannot help a man who doesn’t care about his appearance; however, the proper use of them can transform a decently dressed fellow into an extraordinarily dressed gentleman.
What to Look Forward to in Part IV
Yes, there will be a Part IV! We’ll cover wardrobe storage and protection. The worst thing you can do is spend money on quality menswear only to have it eaten by moths or not ready for service when you need it most. See you in the comments!
_______________
How to Build Your Wardrobe: Part I
How to Build Your Wardrobe: Part II – Men’s Clothing Specifics
How to Build Your Wardrobe: Part III – Men’s Hats, Watches, and Other Accessories
How to Build Your Wardrobe: Part IV – Protecting, Storing, and Cleaning Your Clothing
Written by
Antonio Centeno
President, A Tailored Suit
Articles on Mens Suits, Dress Shirts, Sport Jackets, and Overcoats
Join our Facebook Page & Win Custom Clothing
Related Posts
-
How to Build Your Wardrobe: Part I
-
How to Build Your Wardrobe: Part II – Men’s Clothing Specifics
-
How to Build Your Wardrobe: Part IV – Protecting, Storing, and Cleaning your Clothing
-
A Man’s Guide to Summer Dress Part II
-
Share:
-
- Tweet
-
Email Story to a Friend
-
-
Print
{ 60 comments… read them below or add one }
I think “classic” hats look nice, but there’s a reason a lot of people don’t wear them anymore; because they’ve just gone out of style. I wouldn’t wear a powdered wig, but they used to be manly..
Good job, my friends.
But – there is one accessory missing. Very important accessory. It’s a – pen. Simple, nice, valuable fountain pen. No ballpoint, no freebie pen with any logo.
Well, it’s maybe a theme for the standalone article.
Yet again, another great article, Antonio. Just something to think about for Part IV (which you might already be considering), but it might be useful to explain the best ways to clean certain types of clothing, since I for one am not entirely sure how the dry cleaning process works, or what types of fabric are best suited for that process. Also, any advice about how to get various stains out of clothing (temperature settings, pre-treatment process, etc.)? I was at a restaurant yesterday where the waitress accidentally spilled some coffee on the sleeve of my white dress shirt. Accidents happen, and it would be nice to know the best way make sure I can keep these nice clothes you’ve recommended in top condition.
Looking forward to Part IV!
Function first, style second, eh?
I think watches largely fail this criteria. There are few professions in the function of a watch is superior to one’s omnipresent cellphone or pda. Those of us who are not regular sea divers or motorcyclists have little need for flashy cuffs of man-jewelry.
I’m sure the last buggy-whip manufacturer made a hell of a product, but its time has passed. Let watches go too.
“Good quality sunglasses are not cheap.”
That’s not true anymore! Those of us who wear glasses have been getting gouged in stores for years, but now you can get good quality prescription glasses and sunglasses for very little money. I’ve got a strong prescription but was able to get a pair of glasses — new frames, tax, shipping and all — for just $29.95, and I’ve been wearing them with no problems for a year and a half now.
http://glassyeyes.blogspot.com/
You mention “Bracelets” in the heading for jewelry, but then don’t discuss is further.
In the standard forum question format, I’d like to ask:
“Is it manly to wear a bracelet?”
I have to say my preference for tie accessories runs the exact opposite from yours.
I would much rather wear a tie tac. Yes it puts a hole in your tie, but as long as you’re careful it isn’t a lasting problem. My reason is the symmetry of it. Tie clips/bars are off center and that bugs me. I will admit that the idea of wearing a tie clip askew has made me re-think ever wearing one.
I own several tie tacs of differing styles and one tie chain, though more often than not I go out without anything adorning my tie. Wind just is not a big issue where I live.
Great article, thanks!
Haven’t read the full piece yet, but something quickly came to mind. First off, a watch as an accessory will never be outdated.
And second, if you are looking for a great understated but elegant watch at a GREAT value, look into JUNKERS. They’re German, and no, I have no connection to the company, but I DO wear one. I’ve had collectors ask me where I got it, and it’s only a couple hundred bucks.
Great post, as are all the others at AOM. You’ve really done your research.
The wrist watch is not dead and should not die. If not for one simple situation, dinner and a movie/show. Obviously one should allow enough time for dinner, but you need to be aware of the time so you don’t miss your show. Checking your phone/pda could be seen as checking for SMS or something un-date related. It is much nicer to have a watch.
That is not mentioning the job with back to back meetings where you are not allowed to bring in pda, but need to get out of one meeting in good time to make it to the next. Again the wrist watch is the best option here as phones and pdas are often discouraged from meetings as they do often prove distracting and disruptive.
Great article and I couldn’t agree more about the hat!
I read the original article here at AoM about hats and when I saw a cheap Ivy style at our local Wal-Mart, I picked it up (never have liked ball caps). I loved this hat. Since then, I have purchased 3 others from http://www.hatsinthebelfry.com and have recieved NUMEROUS compliments on them. Some of the hats from this site (no affiliation other than a loyal customer) can be expensive, but all are of TOP NOTCH quality.
I have purchased an oil-cloth Outback style fedora ($38), a wool ivy/driver’s cap ($28), and a summer newsboy ($28). These hats were on the cheaper end of the scale, but will last me for years and hopefully be handed down to my kids or grandkids.
Anyway, just thought I’d share my experience with manly accessories.
Hats do need to come back as proper attire for most occasions. I pick up hats at the clearance isles at department stores, since they are not an easy item to sell, but are frequently requested by customers who have taste. I have had a rabbit felt fedora for almost 15 years and have received numerous compliments from the ladies. I think that the ball cap has been relegated into the mainstream as acceptable dome coverage since some media folk were wearing them with suits, a number of years ago. I would like to see an article also on the proper way to maintain hats, as my fedora has lost its ability to keep its shape and I had to replace it this year with one that was not up to par with my old one.
@Dave-
The omission of bracelets is actually my fault, as I inadvertently deleted that section while I was editing. My apologies to Antonio-it has been restored.
Hey there Antonio. Once again, you’ve written a helpful article. As Dave already pointed out in the comments, you mention bracelets in a heading, but don’t have a paragraph for them. I’d like to know more about your opinion on those as well.
I worked in optometry for a few years and have always–ALWAYS–recommended the Maui Jim sunglasses. I’ve been wearing them for years and absolutely love them. Yes, they’re expensive, but I’ll never go back to wearing ordinary sunglasses again–even for sports (Maui Jim makes some great sports glasses).
When using nicer sunglasses for sporting, I recommend using a sunglasses strap (i.e. a Croakie). If you look around you can find some very nice looking straps that will keep your sunglasses safe will sporting. They’re especially a must have while on the lake.
Looking forward to article IV (bonus! yeah!).
@Chris-
Please see my comment right above your comment.
shmikey,
That site I listed has some tips for maintaing hats. A quick google search should also provide you with the results you desire. My hats aren’t that high-end (i’m a dad of 6, so you can imagine I look for functional, stylish and CHEAP), so they usually just take a mild detergent and hand wash. I then let them air dry.
As far at helping it maintain it’s shape, I’m not sure. Have you looked up “hat repair”?
hope this helps.
I must be living in an alternative universe. Here in Arizona haute couture for men is defined as shorts, tee shirt, flip-flops and a baseball cap. If you’re really stylish you wear your baseball cap backwards. Is it different anywhere else these days? I truly miss the days when I wore a suit and tie to work, always accompanied by my gold watch, fountain pen, cufflinks my father gave me and shined shoes. I felt sharp and as a result I think I was sharp. I’d love to see hats come back in style, not only because I live where the temperature regularly hits or exceeds 100 degrees for several months of the year, but because I think they just look good. I intend to check out the websites in some of these other posts. In the meantime, I haven’t seen a man properly dressed and accessorized for, literally, years. Where are all these guys who are concerned about their appearance? Not in Arizona.
shmikey,
I found this within 5 seconds of posting my last comment. Don’t know if this will help, but it’s worth a shot.
http://www.ehow.com/how_2252746_reshape-wool-fedora.html
Paul,
Not here where I live either, but I’ve been to DC on several business trips, etc and they are around. Particularly in DC!
Jason
Great article for those of us who know nothing about formal attire. I really enjoy this series, keep up the good work.
As an aside, nobody in Seattle wears a raincoat, and almost nobody uses an umbrella. We’ve resigned ourselves to getting wet.
I agree with the info on timepieces. I am a teacher in a middle school and do not work with many men. An individual asked what time it was and the three men all took out thier phones while I glanced at my watch. I think a watch is timeless (no pun intended) but feel that in a few years it will be out of style, or I should say, obsolete. Kind of ironic that a tool for telling time is actually falling behind the times. I own three watches that I wear to coordinate with my clothes. I can’t understand why an individual would wear black pants, white shirt and a watch with a brown band. Working with many females, my style stands out even more and I am very careful to dress appropriately. I own several cuff links, tie tacks, shoes, belts, and other articles of clothing men should readily wear. I love this site and feel proud that much of what is discussed is either what I already do or at least am aware of. I’m glad there is actually a site useful for men and I’m not embarassed to mention this site when I talk to people.
Jason
From one dad of six to another, Thanks.
For about three years now I have put myself under a strict discipline: to never step outside without a hat adorning my head. It seems that no matter what style I am wearing, from newsboy to homberg to boater, it is IMPOSSIBLE to not receive at least one compliment when I am out and about. This phenomenon took me by surprise when I first began the practice, but today I have come to expect it and usually respond with a polite “Thank you, sir/miss” while brushing the brim with my index finger. I have even begun the practice of carrying business cards of my local haberdasher (The venerable Heimie’s in Saint Paul, MN) of whom I purchase all of my headwear. Everyone wants to know where they can too look as stylish, and that alone gives me hope for my young generation.
FYI, the number one hat that gets the most compliments from the ladies, I find, is my Stetson panema. Combined with a crisp summer suit, and the competition won’t stand a chance.
shmikey, look into a local hat cleaner. A lot of times they double as a dry cleaner (because the hat cleaning business alone is not nearly enough to pay the bills.) They will wash it and “block” it, which is essentially putting the hat on an iron of a predetermined shape of a hat. In this way it is steamed into shape. They will also ask you if you want starch in the brim and in the case of a fedora, whether you want the brim up or down. This is entirely your preference.
Of course, if you go to the best milliner in the world, James Locke and Co., they will actually block the shape of the hat to your very head, creating a perfect fit. But there of course you will pay $300-400 a hat.
I was sad to see messenger-style bags not included. They’re sort of like briefcases, without the heavy professional look. Also, combine it with a fedora (doesn’t really matter what kind/color), and people will start calling you Indiana Jones (despite the fact that, being short with a heavy beard, I look absolutely nothing like Harrison Ford).
On the other hand, one of the clerks at a nearby Panera Bread recently told me I always look like I’m coming back from some adventure.
Anyway, my favorite hat right now is a hand-made green suede leather fedora from Excalibur Leather (http://www.excaliburleather.com/) that I bought at a local Renaissance Festival (and how do you know they *didn’t* have fedoras in the Renaissance? ;-) ).
I must comment on the latest issue. I have been a hat person off and on for years. When I played with my country band, it was a “cowboy” hat. My wife gave me a Stetson “Indiana Jones” on our first Christmas (1985) which I still love. I have not found a place near me that can clean and re-block my fedora but I wear it anyway.
On the subject of sunglasses. I agree in principle. However, there are many of us “four eyes” who would benefit from some advice (other than buying prescription) on sunglasses. I wear “fit-overs”, but they aren’t pretty!
Thanks for the great articles!!
I’m loving the series, and can’t wait for the bonus article! I’ve bookmarked these and will be using them as I create my “shopping list” as I create my dream wardrobe. It’s great to know that I’m not alone when I desire to bring back a classic look to my daily life.
@Mike
I wouldn’t wear a powdered wig either, but I’m certainly willing to help bring back the “classic” hat.
@Balu
I love my fountain pen and am slowly building a collection. I’ve got a few older Parkers, all heriloom pieces from family. I carry a pen with me everywhere, and often get compliments on it.
@Don Barker
I agree with you about sunglasses. I’ve had to give them up, as I can’t wear contacts. One of these days I’ll get some prescription sunglasses, though, and I can’t wait. This is actually part of the reason I’m seriously looking into hats… I need something to keep the sun out of my eyes!
I read the piece on accessories, and oddly enough, one of the most ESSENTIAL pieces to most any “man’s” wardrobe was a glaring omission…the knife.
Most every guy I know carries either a functional/stylish classic pocket knife, or if like me, the more manly “tactical” knife, which normally is worn by it’s clip just inside one of the pockets…IMHO, no attire should never be without a good knife, as it COULD save your life…
BAD AOM, BAD!!!!!!
I would have to agree with Chris G. I have carried a knife since I was about ten years old. It is good to have several varieties depending on the circumstances. A warning some front pockets are shallow and items will fall out when you sit down. Clip knives however are rough on fabric and quickly produce a worn spot. But I do carry a clip knife when wearing more casual cloths. Likewise army knives with more than a couple accessories also create wear. They are also rather short on style. But a small one or two blade knife is hardly noticeable in the pocket. A good pocket knife can easily be a valued family heirloom. And the gift of one to a boy of suitable age is a rite of passage which he will remember with each use of the knife. There are few things more manly than a knife.
Regarding bracelets, they are necessary for some men due to a medical condition (such as diabetes). This allows paramedics and ER physicians to better care for the patient, sparing certain medications and/or treatments that may worsen the patient’s condition. There are medical necklaces available that can be worn discreetly under the shirt, but these are much more difficult to find nowadays.
1) Don’t skimp on a watch. Spend at least $250-500 on one, and even, better, buy two. I recommend getting one quartz and one automatic (self-winding). For the quartz, a Hamilton Ventura is always an excellent pick… timeless and stylish. For the automatic, I’d go with either a Hamilton Khaki, or a Bulova.
2) Don’t forget fountain pens as an accessory! I have a preference for Visconti, but there are many makes and models of great fountain pens in a wide variety of price points. One of my favorites is actually a Parker Facet.
I love this idea of men wearing more fashionable accessories. The pocketwatch and hat need to come back!!!
http://www.etsy.com/shop/soliloquyshoppe
Just a quick style note on writing: The phrase “as that” is redundant as the word “as” serves perfectly well alone. It’s akin to wearing two rings on the same finger when one is all that is necessary.
Thanks for the great article!
I’ve got a fedora-style straw Panama that I’ve been happy to break out now that the weather’s warmed up again. Regardless of where I go, it gets nothing but compliments.
One excellent advantage of wearing hats: when you’re meeting ladies who aren’t used to men who wear hats, they’re often eager to try it on themselves. And I absolutely guarantee you that every single one of them will make it look better than you or any man ever could.
Enjoyed this article… “Classic”
I am a bit dissapointed that there is no mention of coats and similair outerwear.
Oh what fun. Some of us enjoy hats and pocket watches whether they are perceived as “in or out” — and wear them with aplomb any season. As my nephews have grown into adulthood it has been a great pleasure to share the hat joy with them. Recently jazzed up a fine felt bowler for one nephew– with silk hatband and feather cockade, YES!
Also passing on manly family rings to the young men, agree wearing a piece of history, something with connection and meaning, adds substance.
Thanks for an enjoyable read.
Yeah, give us a fountain pen article, please.
Great article. My favourite still has to be the trilby, it leads the way for mens summer hats!
As for sunglasses, aviators are still my favourite style by far.
Hey i love this series, its been lots of help. Where do suspenders fit into all of this? When do you wear them usually, with what? How formal or informal are they? I like them but i have really no idea what the right way to pull them off is?
i like the fadora but it seems a bit formal for my tastes…i llike a good driver (not a newsboy) that alwasys does well and it goes with the burns.
I am a relative newcomer to AoM but I find some of the advice rather good.
A few years ago I happened upon a small watch meant as a key-ring type accessory. Finding myself coincidently in need of a new timepiece, I simply replaced the keyring with a short jewellery chain and clip, turning it into a small pocket watch. Most jeans and chinos have a small money pouch near the right pocket which the little watch fits perfectly into, and the chain is long enough for the clasp to attach to the nearest belt tab.
I did not deliberately go out of my way to wear a pocket watch but I’ve grown perfectly comfortable doing so. I’ve been described as a little eccentric before, but my close friends were hardly surprised when I started wearing it because, as they put it, somehow it just fitted with my personality.
The only other accessory I am considering apart from my fountain pen (which served me faithfully throughout high school and university) is a stainless steel ring engraved with a Latin phrase.
Can I just say that I think if a pull over sweater could be considered an accessory that one should NEVER waste money on anything but a V-Necked Pull Over. The V-Neck will allow for far far more options. Wearing a tie underneath. An open collar. Buy them in all different colors and bring the focus straight to you. V-Necks are absolutely the way to go.
i thought of another accessory that needs attention especially for the older crowd of gentlemen and that is a cane. I have always seemed to have a deeper respect for an elder man with a cool cane that he carried like he needed it for balance but also showing he still has the ability to whip you with that stick if you need it. So what do we have? First, I think it must be wooden to begin the metal ones definately show frailty.
Second what type of handle? Shepard’s Crook, Ball, or handle? Straight cane, Ornatly carved or fresh from the tree. All depend on the personality but I believe it is an accesssory that deserves attention.
Although I think the 1940′s – 50′s were a classical era in men’s fashion, I’m still not convinced on the fedora comeback crusade. Its ability to provide some classy style has been diminished somewhat by boneheads on MTV wearing them with boardshorts so it may be a case of trying to look and act a little younger than what you really are. At 44, I simply get a good haircut and do my best with the rest.
Come to think of it, the hat would cover my damn bald spot, though.
@Mike – Powdered wigs were fashion, hat’s serve a purpose. And classic style never goes out of fashion!
@Balu – You’re right! I missed it!
@The Counselor – Thank you sir! AS for your question, check the archives for our dry cleaning article.
@Kyle – I like the buggy whip!
@Peter – Sounds like you have a found a great deal!
@Dave – It’s been fixed!
@Robert – Thanks for the other view on tie tacks!
@The Optimalist – I like Junkers as well!
@Pipp – Great point sir!
@Jason – Thank you for sharing sir!
@Shmikey – I agree sir!
@Chris Mower – Maui Jims are great…love them! And your blog rocks!
@Jason – 6 kids and you wear stylish hats? Awesome!
@Paul Stockford – There is hope in Arizona….I know as I have a handful of clients there!
@Jason – Thanks for the help!
@Jake – I wear a raincoat when in Seattle! But since this is only once every two years, you may not have seen me!
@William – Thank you for the great comment sir….and we’ll work hard to stay useful!
@Robert – Great comment – added a lot to the article!
@CoffeeZombie – We left out bags and luggage on purpose….too much to cover in one post!
@Don Barker – Look into a mail order blocking and cleaning service.
@Adventure-Some Matthew – Thank you sir!
@Chris G. – Thanks for catching that!
@Harold Crews – Don’t for get to ask for a penny when you give the knife!
@Andy – Great point about Bracelets!
@mlamorte – you have excellent tastes sir…I need you as a client!
@Jasanna – Thank you!
@Brett – Sorry, I’m not a professional writer…..just love sharing!
@Chris – Good points!
@Lionel J. Traylor – Thank you!
@Jay – look for that in the fall
@Jane of Glorious Hats – You are welcome mam!
@Sarge – A fountain Pen Article? Wow, I didn’t realize there was so much demand for this!
@Mens Summer Hats – Thanks for weighing in.
@Greene – Suspenders….we need to cover those!
@Eric – The driver is an excellent choice.
@Stevie – Great Story!
@Kurt Russell Anderson – You can say that!
@Clint Flatt – Have you read the AOM piece on the cane?
@Roger – Sounds like a reason to wear one!
@Kyle: “There are few professions in the function of a watch is superior to one’s omnipresent cellphone or pda.”
I usually use my phone instead of wearing a watch, but when I do wear a watch, I find I can tell the time more quickly, more easily and more discretely.
Fedoras were very cool on Humphrey Bogart. Now there’s a stigma to them, they occupy just about the same niche as an anime shirt. Really if I see anybody under 50 wearing that sort of hat I just assume they’re incredibly strange.
*Maybe* somebody who really knows their fashion could pull it off. But I think for most people likely to get fashion advice from this sort of article, a fedora is the absolute last thing they should wear.
WHen I see a dude wearing a fedora, I immediately assume he’s a little weird. Maybe even bats for the “other team” if you know what I mean.
Obviously, the Ball-type cap is the most predominant and popular hat that is worn in the modern age. Farmers and truck drivers wear them. Athletes and their fans alike wear them. Rednecks and gansta’s wear them. Everybody does.
I would like to see some discussion on the CORRECT way to wear a ball cap. Things like,
1. the brim ought to be forward, not backward or sideways. The only exception is the mechanic who temporarily turns his hat brim-backward because he has to stick his head between the frame rails of a bulldozer and doesn’t want his hat to fall off. Otherwise, brim is always forward.
2. wearing a hat isn’t automatically a free pass on semi-regular grooming with regard to hear. Cut it once in a while, comb it occasionally, and wash it regularly. Part of the reason is because of…….(below)
3. Know when to take your hat off. Whenever the National Anthem is being played, or whenever any kind of prayer is being said (even if you’re not participating, if you’re present, take it off). Also in funeral processions and most certainly whenever you are in any kind of house of worship (even when a service is not currently in progress). Even if it’s not YOUR religion. I don’t care if you’re a Baptist in a Catholic church, a Catholic in a Synagogue, or an Atheist in a Mosque. If you’re in anyone’s place of worship your hat better be removed the whole time you’re there.
I’m still looking for a decent hat for sub-zero winters but I just can’t get into hats as an everyday fashion statement. To paraphrase a men’s style blog post I read on the subject, non-bald men under 40 who wear hats tend to fall into one of two categories: douchebag or dungeonmaster. That’s probably incredibly unfair but I can’t help but agree.
With respect to ball caps, I’d prefer they were left to sporting events.
I liked the article. Thanks
When is part 4 coming along. My wardrobe could do with some organising tips, very good series so far.
Excellent series thus far! I’d be interested on do’s / do not’s for formal wear, specifically black tie. I don’t envision myself ever being in a social circle where white tie would be appropriate or warranted…but I’d be interested in a tailor’s take on proper tux wear, vest vs cumberbund, bow tie vs normal tie, double and/or satin lapels vs straight black, and so on.
I think things like lighters are important to note. If you are wearing a nice suit, pulling out a bright pink bic lighter is not the same as a classy zippo. And lets not forget the lost art of the cigarette case. While smoking is on the outs in most situations, it can still show a lot of class.
Quick point – one can bring a watch to a black or white tie event, but it must be a pocket watch
Superb article. I especially like the bit about Sunglasses! Wayfarers are my favourite!
As an Austinite I love the Lake Travis comment, I learned that the hard way after losing my Maui Jims on Travis.
Knives? By all means you do not NEED a knife. Drawing a deadly weapon in a dangerous situation, can only heed negative results. Either try to diffuse the situation with words, or use your fists to defend yourself, OR you run. If you draw a knife on a thief, who too has a knife. Now your in a knife fight, and you have no option but to win. You escalated a petty robbery, into a deadly knife fight. The thief could have a gun, and now since you just pulled a knife, he will now shoot you. So leave the samurai swords at home. Now a for-functional woodsman knife, is perfectly fine. Pocketknifes (ie. switchblades) are a no no.
Hats are not easy to pull off well. The fundamental problem with hats is nicely illustrated in this pic:
http://cdn.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFiles/picture/2284360/83113370.jpg
I have two fedora’s for fall/winter and I will tell you they get a lot of compliments especially from the ladies. The picture of Frank Sinatra and that gent on the top will tell you how you wear and dress it up. Also, one should know how to keep his fedora clean and the gentlemanly way how to remove his hat when entering a building.
I love all the articles I read on AOM! I consider myself a “hat guy” with many different styles,shapes and materials,from straw to felt and leather to wool.They all eventually have one common problem;dirty,sweaty and smelly sweat bands! I would think by now there would be an easy way to clean the bands at home. I have looked for solutions online at many websites and short of dyi recipies where I need to mix chemicals and use a toothbrush have come up empty. Does anybody have a good suggestion on how to deodorize my beloved hats ?