15 Best Buddy Movies

by Brett & Kate McKay on October 8, 2009 · 151 comments

in A Man's Life, Diversions

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The buddy movie represents an uniquely American genre of cinema. Instead of a male-female romantic couple being the focus of the story, buddy movies center on the relationship between two heterosexual males. Buddy movies are unabashedly about male bonding and friendship, and they all pretty much follow the same script.  Two or more men with different personalities or backgrounds are thrown together. At first they don’t get along because of their differences, but by the end of the movie they work through their issues and become best buddies.  For the most part, buddy movies have been comedies that use the contrasting personalities of the male leads to set up gags, but writers and directors have also used the buddy movie to explore issues of race, class, homosexuality, and religion as it relates to masculinity.

Below, we’ve listed 15 of the best buddy movies ever made. If you’re looking to do something on your next guy’s night, consider renting one of these classics that pay homage to male friendship.

Grumpy Old Men

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There are several sub-genres within the buddy movie genre itself, including the geriatric buddy film. Grumpy Old Men is arguably the best entry in this category. Walter Matthau and Jack Lemmon team up to play two grizzled friends who love to hate each other. They fought since they were kids. You never know why, you only know they despise each other. Things only heat up when an attractive older woman (played by Ann Margaret) moves into the neighborhood. Despite their outward disgust with each other, the two men deeply care for one another. Filled with great one-liners and lots of charming old music, Grumpy Old Men makes a great movie to watch with grandpa.

Swingers

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Swingers reminds you of why it’s so important for a man to have friends. Mike (Jon Favreau) is a comedian in L.A. who has hit a real rough patch in his life. His longtime girlfriend back in Queens dumped him, he can’t land any gigs, and he hasn’t a shred of self-esteem left.  Thankfully, Mike has a group of friends who rally around him and work to get him back on his feet. A svelte and young Vince Vaughn plays the fast-talking wise guy friend who peps Mike up and tries to convince him about how money he is. Mike’s friend Rob (Ron Livingston) offers more sage advice and acts as a sounding board for his downtrodden buddy. Thanks to his friends, Mike finally gets his act together and rebounds from his doldrums.

Road To Morocco

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During the late 30′s and early 40′s, Bing Crosby and Bob Hope starred in a series of road movies that didn’t include much in the way of plot. I think the films were basically an excuse to get Bing Crosby to sing and Bob Hope to crack some jokes. Despite their lack of depth, the Road to… movies are a joy to watch. They’re fun, lighthearted, and don’t take themselves very seriously. Out of all the Road movies, Road to Morocco is the best. The friendship and chemistry between Crosby and Hope is legendary. Check it out.

Lethal Weapon

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Lethal Weapon is a perfect example of another sub-genre of the buddy movie: the cop buddy movie. Mel Gibson plays Sergeant Martin Rigs, a loose cannon maverick cop that takes risks that verge on the suicidal. Danny Glover plays the veteran, risk averse cop. For some reason, the fates bring these two polar opposites together as partners. At first, they can’t stand each other, but as the film progresses, the two develop a bond and chemistry that’s both comedic and warming. This movie has it all- classic lines like Danny Glover’s “I’m getting too old for this sh**,” an albino villain played by Gary Busey, and of course, an example of a solid male friendship.

Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid

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Paul Newman plays Butch Cassidy, the fast talking wise guy friend. Robert Redford plays the Sundance Kid, the sort-of-serious friend. They were “outlaws with style in a class all their own.” Old Butch and Sundance did everything together: they robbed trains together, looted banks together, and ran away from Union Pacific security posse together. Heck, they even shared the same woman (we don’t recommend that-a clear violation of the man code). Yes, Butch and Sundance were like brothers. The final scene pretty much sums up the friendship between the two. I won’t spoil it for those who haven’t seen it. Rent it and watch it today with a bud

Shawshank Redemption

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Shawshank Redemption isn’t your typical buddy movie. While most buddy movies are comedies, the laughs in Shawshank Redemption are few and far between. Tim Robbins plays Andy Dufresne,  a white banker from Maine who is wrongly convicted of murdering his wife. Morgan Freeman plays Red, a black man who’s been in jail for years for a crime he committed as a teenager. In normal life, the two probably would never have been friends, but within Shawshank’s old stonewalls, they form a friendship that will last a lifetime.

Abbot and Costello Meet Frankenstein

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Like Cosby and Hope, Abbot and Costello starred in a series of comedic buddy films during the 1940s. The Abbot and Costello Meet… films usually had Abbot and Costello confronting one of the monsters from Universal Studio’s classic monster films. Out of all of them, Abbot and Costello Meet Frankenstein is definitely the best. Dracula and Frankenstein end up in the United States. Dracula needs to find a new brain for Frankenstein and decides that Costello’s would be a good one. Hilarity ensues. There’s nothing really deep about the friendship between Abbot and Costello; it’s just a good reminder that a best friend can make any situation fun, even when a monster is after your brain.

I Love You, Man

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Making friends is difficult for the modern man. Because of work, dating, and family commitments, guys often lose touch with their buds. In I Love You, Man, Peter Klaven (Paul Rudd) is a young real estate agent in LA who’s about to marry his dream girl. Problem is Peter doesn’t have any male friends he can ask to be his best man. But his lack of a best man is the least of his problems. With no other males in his life, Peter has lost touch with his manliness. All that changes when he meets Sydney Fife (Jason Segel). Sydney is honest, comfortable in his own skin, and relishes being a man. Sure, Sydney’s conception of manliness is a little oafish, but it’s exactly what Peter needs to shake of the wussification that has held him bound and reconnect with his masculinity. This movie is crammed with laugh out loud moments, lots of memorable quotes, and dialogue and situations that really ring true. Slapping the bass!

48 Hours

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Cue the awesome synth music. 48 Hours inspired the cop buddy movies of the 80′s and early 90′s (see Lethal Weapon). Funny thing is, only one of the lead characters was actually a cop. Nick Nolte plays Jack Cates, a gruff, chain-smoking, by the book cop who’s out for revenge after a notorious murderer kills several of his comrades. To help him track down the murderer, Cates enlists the help of a fast-talking con-man named Reggie Hammond (Eddie Murphy). The mismatch, like in every other cop buddy movie, creates a comedic gold mine.

The Man Who Would Be King

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This buddy movie has two things going for it from the get go. First, it’s based off a short story by Rudyard Kipling. And second, the two leading men are Sean Connery and Michael Caine, two bad ass actors in their prime. The story follows two British soldiers who decide to leave the army and become kings of a remote place in India that no white man has set foot in since Alexander the Great. They decide it would be easier to subdue the village if they convince the villagers that one of them is a god. Daniel (Sean Connery) takes on the god role, but the power quickly goes to his head and causes the ruin of him and his friend. The ending of the film is amazing and captures what friendship is all about: unwavering loyalty.

The Defiant Ones

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Two inmates get an unexpected shot at escape. But alas, they’re chained together. Oh, and one of them is black (Sidney Poitier) and one’s white (Tony Curtis). And it’s the late 1950s. Can somebody say “racial tension?” During the course of the movie, the two men are able to put aside their differences and work together to become free. They even become buddies by the end. At its core, The Defiant Ones is about the ability of a man’s heart to change and the loyalty among men when faced with dire circumstances.

Some Like It Hot

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Don’t adjust your sets-that ain’t a couple of broads

Two out of work musicians witness the St. Valentine’s Day Massacre and have to flee for their lives from the mobsters who want them silenced. They don’t have the money to make it to Florida, so they do what any desperate man on the lam would: put on a dress and high heels and join an all woman’s orchestra. Jack Lemmon plays Jerry (aka Daphne) and Tony Curtis stars as Joe (aka Josephine). Of course with two red blooded American men disguised as women in an all women’s review, there’s bound to be some serious sexual tension going on, especially when one of the members of the group happens to be Marilyn Monroe. Zoinks! Some argue that Some Like It Hot is cinema’s greatest comedy. Whether the movie is worthy of such a title or not, it’s certainly a great buddy film.

The Odd Couple

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Why is that sometimes the person who irritates us the most ends up becoming our best friend? Well, that irony is at the heart of The Odd Couple.  Felix Unger’s (Jack Lemmon) wife leaves him, so he goes to live with his long time buddy, Oscar Madison (Walter Matthau). But tension sets in as the two quickly discover their opposite personalities clash like polka dots and stripes. Felix is an uptight neat freak who’s always cleaning. Oscar is a grumpy slob who revels in his filth. You can see where this is going. The chemistry between Lemmon and Matthau is fantastic; the dialogue is hilarious.  See the Grumpy Old Men before they were just plain grumpy.

Silver Streak

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While on a cross-country train ride, George Caldwell (Gene Wilder) finds himself accused of a crime he didn’t commit. With the help of a thief (Richard Pryor), George sets out to clear his name and save the girl of his dreams from the villain who actually committed the crime.  Wilder and Pryor are hilarious together. Of course when you have a white guy and black guy teaming up together in the 1970s, racism will be a subject of the film. But Silver Streak uses comedy to show the audience how stupid racial stereotypes and bigotry is. The most memorable scene in the movie has to be when Pryor tries to teach Wilder how to “walk black.”  Of course, Wilder ends up looking like a goofy white guy trying to be hip, resulting in comedic gold.

The Sting

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A classic caper movie set in 1936 Chicago. Two Chicago con artists (Newman and Redford) set out to avenge the murder of a mutual friend, only to find themselves in a high-stakes game against the master of all cheating mobsters (Robert Shaw). The rapport between Newman and Redford in The Sting is similar to the one they had in Butch Cassidy: easy-going, light-hearted, but fiercely loyal.

Know of any other good buddy movies that didn’t make our list? Share them with us in the comments!

{ 151 comments… read them below or add one }

101 Sean October 27, 2009 at 7:03 pm

Top Gun, Waynes World, Dumb and Dumber and Wedding Crashers, all would be excellent additions to this list.

102 Lex October 27, 2009 at 9:21 pm

How about Enemy Mine, Stand By Me, The Karate Kid, Fight Club, and Finding Forrester?

103 Durko October 28, 2009 at 4:07 am

Can’t forget about these: Rush Hour, Superbad, Friday, Home Alone, Starsky and Hutch

104 Rudolph October 28, 2009 at 4:27 pm

The Deer Hunter, 1978 has to be on the buddy list.

105 Farnoosh Brock October 28, 2009 at 10:55 pm

Hi, I wonder if I’ll show up as that hunky man if I post (I am a woman for clarity!) and I hope it’s ok to post here………..Oh I love most of these movies and I have to see some of the older ones. Bonding of men in a movie appeals to me just as much. The Bucket List was a good movie I thought too. I love this website!

106 Krist October 29, 2009 at 12:54 pm

I hate the terms Bromantic Comedy and Bromosexual. It’s a Buddy Flick!

107 J.J. October 29, 2009 at 2:14 pm

The best buddy movie ever…The Wild Bunch.

108 Rohit November 3, 2009 at 2:12 pm

Sholay. its an old bollywood movie, but great buddy flick. The ending made me cry like a man.

109 Raphael November 7, 2009 at 11:51 am

Bud Spencer and Terence Hill, nuff`said!

110 Unixhero November 9, 2009 at 9:19 am

You forgot to mention the TV series Friends. The male-male relationships
between Joey, Chandler and Ross has actually been mentioned by sociologists to be sending signals to the societies that it’s okay to be warmer towards your male friends as well…

Uh, I remember reading that somewhere.

Anyways, thanks a lot for this great site

111 Phil November 10, 2009 at 7:06 am

How about “Running Scared”?? The Billy Crystal/Gregory Hines version that is, not the one about losing a gun?? Hilarious, great car chase on the Chicago El, and a great turn by Jimmy Smits as the bad guy??

112 Mike Smith November 11, 2009 at 12:37 am

Gone Fishing is a great addition to the list. A really good list by the way

113 Caleb November 11, 2009 at 1:53 pm

Midnight Run w/ Robert DeNiro and Charles Grodin

114 Tobias November 12, 2009 at 7:15 pm

Tango and Cash? Anyone?

115 mark November 24, 2009 at 5:20 pm

The Big Lebowski!

116 Jeremy December 24, 2009 at 9:09 am

Good Will Hunting!

117 Ben January 6, 2010 at 12:13 pm

Joe Proctor is right, Band of Brothers and Lonesome Dove are mini-series and would not be in this category, maybe we should make one, a top 10 mini series of Manliness. Ken Burns The Civil War and Baseball should be in that…

Than being said Second Hand Lions should make the list, Master and Commander: The far side of the world should also. Gunga Din is another that should be an honorable mention if it doesn’t make the list.

118 Alex Hutson January 19, 2010 at 1:20 am

Fight Club
Bill & Ted’s Excellent Adventure
Strangers On a Train

119 Dill January 19, 2010 at 12:13 pm

Not one usually thought of a buddy movie, but Pulp Fiction – the relationship and conversation between John Travolta and Sam Jackson totally makes that movie. Many great conversations – while cleaning the car, in the coffee shop, while waiting for 7AM, hahaha. After talking to Wolf, when Travolta says, “Don’t look at me; I can feel the way you’re looking at me, Jules” is one of my favorite buddy-relationship moments.

120 Mark January 23, 2010 at 12:45 am

Could I suggest an old cartoon ? Jonny Quest!

121 YoHuckleberry January 28, 2010 at 11:18 pm

I put a vote in for Clerks. Because when you have to work on your day off, your love triangle is falling apart, you have to miss your hockey game with the guys, and there are two drug dealers outside who just won’t be beaten …… it’s easier to cope when you’re suffering with you’re best friend.

What about Hidalgo? Does your buddy have to actually be a human. I also have to vote for Tombstone. And, even though it’s a documentary, I vote for Let It Be. If you’ve ever been in a band you know the brotherly bond that can come with it. That movie is video evidence of the dissolution of a brotherhood, peppered in with happy moments of them doing what brought them together in the first place. Playing Rock ‘n’ Roll.

122 YoHuckleberry January 30, 2010 at 6:45 am

Also, what about ”All The President’s Men?” Redford and Hoffman playing Woodward and Bernstein. This is a classic about two men coming together to tell the truth. Even if that truth is that when Nixon said “I’m not a crook,” he was lying.

123 Wesley Hawkins March 5, 2010 at 2:01 am

“Open Range” with Kevin Costner and Robert Duvall as Charlie and Boss. I won’t give an overview, but it’s a classic buddy film. While you’re at it, check out Clint Eastwood and Morgan Freeman interacting in “Unforgiven.” Awesome.

124 kevin March 12, 2010 at 7:54 pm

Without a doubt “Thunderbolt & lightfoot ” should be here to . Clint Eastwood and Jeff Bridges. You cant go wrong there .

125 kevin March 12, 2010 at 8:01 pm

By the way someone said on here something about the show ” friends ” . Are you kidding me friends , friends . Oh my God no . I would rather have beenie boy and cecile the sea serpent on here than anyone from friends . Now excuse me while I go vomit .

126 Kevin April 10, 2010 at 9:28 am

What about Spaceballs, Goodfellas and Airplane.

What’s the matter Colonel Sanders, Chicken?
Hey Spider, Dance the drink back to me.
A hosipital, what is it? It’s a big building with patients, but that’s not important right now.

127 John April 27, 2010 at 8:31 pm

A web site called The Art of Manliness and yet no mention of the best guy movie ever made? The Big Lebowski!!!!!! I have met people all over the world who know every line of that movie.

I’m still intrigued by your site though.

128 Derek April 29, 2010 at 7:32 pm

THE BIG LEBOWSKI. The Dude and Walter is the best “buddy” relationship I’ve seen in any movie. Oh, and I second whoever said Clerks.

129 dutch May 17, 2010 at 10:18 pm

Y’all are forgetting “Of Mice And MEN”.

130 Vin May 18, 2010 at 12:31 am

Rush Hour Series!!!!???

131 Josh May 24, 2010 at 3:27 am

Weekend At Bernie’s

132 Josh May 24, 2010 at 3:31 am

Play it to the Bone

133 Sargent Westfall June 8, 2010 at 12:24 pm

Some movies mentioned in above comments don’t fit the mold of buddy films, but I have to agree with: Blues Brothers, Top Gun, Wayne’s World (all three would not be films if not for the “Buddies”)

And just for fun…a couple Tom Hanks stretches: “Cast Away” (who could have thought that a volleyball could make you cry), and Turner and Hooch

134 Upslones June 14, 2010 at 8:28 pm

Great list!
I want to add a movie from Argentina called Tiempo de valientes (tiempodevalientes.com check it out). And the italian …Altrimenti ci arrabbiamo!
(The blues brothers and Hot Fuzz must be on the list)

135 Rod June 25, 2010 at 3:38 pm

Running Scared: Crystal / HInes…gotta get it on there.
“…But at least we’d keep our PANTS!”

If you’re considering a manly underdog list…where’s Marky Mark (minus the Funky Bunch) and “Shooter”?

136 FoolJay July 3, 2010 at 1:50 am

All the ones on the list that I have seen I agree with. As I read it the one I was really hoping to see, though, was Sideways. Fantastic buddy movie, two very real guys that both somehow remind me of myself, and that I can see bits of in most guys I know. The clash of personalities is great, the loyalty is great, the comedy is great. My favorite buddy movie ever, since the first time I saw it.

I noticed David above mentioned it too, so I guess this is me seconding.

Also, Lord of the Rings trilogy is a great call. Frodo/Sam and Gimli/Legolas are both great friendships. Maybe it they aren’t buddy movies exactly, but the friendships aren’t any weaker.

I also agree with White Men Can’t Jump, Fight Club, Blues Brothers, Pulp Fiction, Planes Trains and Automobiles, Reign Over Me, and the Big Lebowski. Not related to friendship, but Julianne Moore swinging from the ceiling flinging paint is how I have pictured all artists since I first saw that movie.

Fantastic call on 3:10 to Yuma as well, The grudging, growing respect, the forced circumstance, and the climax were both classic buddy and original because of the setting and the characters themselves.

I just found this site, btw, and this is my first post. Love the site, and but this thread is the one that I just ahd to respond to.

137 john August 4, 2010 at 11:43 pm

Honestly, turner and hooch has a great buddy relationship starting out rough and then in the end they love each other, another (I must sound like an 8 year old) is fox and the hound for obvious reasons and stand by me is a great buddy movie as well as a way you look at friendship changer….and everything mentioned below has already been mentioned so why reiterate

138 Eric October 8, 2012 at 7:27 am

Thank-you, no THANK-YOU from the bottom of my heart for avoiding the term “bromance”! Nothing turns me off to a movie or tv show faster than someone using that term to describe it.

139 Evan October 15, 2012 at 11:41 pm

Durko nailed it. I was going to say Starsky and Hutch (cannot beat Ben Stiller & Owen Wilson), but especially Rush Hour. Man, I love those movies…

140 Daniel October 22, 2012 at 3:06 am

Some real winners on here from every genre:
The Sting
I Love You, Man
Lethal Weapon
However, rising far above a series of enjoyable buddy comedies of my youth, Dumb and Dumber deserves a feature in every Buddy Movie article.

141 Danny November 27, 2012 at 2:31 pm

No Planes, Trains & Automobiles??

142 Nic December 7, 2012 at 11:19 pm

City Slickers

143 Joe December 19, 2012 at 9:36 am

Recent buddy films, I nominate “50-50″ with Seth Rogan and Joseph Gordon-Levitt; and “End of Watch” with Jake Gyllenhaal and Michael Peña.

144 Bob January 3, 2013 at 1:03 pm

Asecond for Planes, Trains & Automobiles..John Candy and Steve Martin.

145 Junky January 8, 2013 at 10:16 pm

Harold & Kumar, Rush Hour, 21 Jump, Clerks, Lock Stock,

146 marty January 25, 2013 at 6:21 pm

Time warped but a real buddy movie, Easyrider.

147 Justin January 29, 2013 at 1:30 am

Rush hour definitely needs to be on here

148 Tyler T. February 3, 2013 at 12:44 pm

Dutch and Stand by me are awesome buddy movies. I was surprised they were not on this list.

149 Eli March 18, 2013 at 1:46 pm

There is no better example of best buddies than Wyatt Earp and Doc Holiday in Tombstone.

150 Tim March 26, 2013 at 5:37 pm

I agree with Eli on the Doc Holiday and Wyatt Earp friendship from “Tombstone”. The scene where Doc is laying on his deathbed and says “Wyatt, if ever you were my friend…” gets me EVERY time.
I also agree with “Clerks”
“Sideways” would be on my list of buddy movies as well.
Here are a couple more for your consideration:
Good Will Hunting (Sean/Will or Will/Chuck)
Wyatt Earp (LONG movie)
Band of Brothers (all of the guys in Easy Co)

151 Andres April 6, 2013 at 1:39 pm

What about Private Gump and Lt. Dan?

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