{"id":99835,"date":"2020-12-23T07:11:04","date_gmt":"2020-12-23T13:11:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/?p=99835"},"modified":"2026-10-01T13:14:06","modified_gmt":"2026-10-01T18:14:06","slug":"how-to-tell-better-stories","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/social\/social-skills\/how-to-tell-better-stories\/","title":{"rendered":"Podcast #462: How to Tell Better Stories"},"content":{"rendered":"

This is a re-broadcast. The episode originally ran in November 2018. <\/em><\/p>\n

Humans are storytelling and story-listening creatures. We use stories to teach, persuade, and to make sense of the complexities of existence. Being able to craft and deliver a good story is thus a real advantage in all areas of life, giving you a foot up when doing job interviews, going on dates, interacting with friends, or making a sales pitch.<\/p>\n

Fortunately, good storytelling is a skill that can learned by anyone. Here to teach us the art of storytelling is Matthew Dicks<\/a>, a writer, five-time Moth GrandSlam storytelling winner, and the author of the book Storyworthy: Engage, Teach, Persuade, and Change Your Life through the Power of Storytelling<\/em><\/a>. <\/em><\/p>\n

Today on the show, Matthew walks us through the nuts and bolts of how to craft a compelling story. We begin our conversation discussing ways to generate story ideas, why good stories don\u2019t have to be about big moments, and why he recommends a practice called “Homework for Life.” Matthew then tells us what we can learn from movies about making a story so engaging that people are waiting to hear what you say next. We also discuss the don’ts of storytelling, including how to never begin a story. And we end our conversation with a five-minute story from Matthew that showcases all the principles we discussed during the show.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This is a re-broadcast. The episode originally ran in November 2018.  Humans are storytelling and story-listening creatures. We use stories to teach, persuade, and to make sense of the complexities of existence. 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