{"id":99616,"date":"2018-11-19T11:43:24","date_gmt":"2018-11-19T17:43:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/?p=99616"},"modified":"2026-10-01T13:21:33","modified_gmt":"2026-10-01T18:21:33","slug":"how-to-cultivate-gratitude-thankfulness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/character\/self-improvement\/how-to-cultivate-gratitude-thankfulness\/","title":{"rendered":"Podcast #459: Beyond Gratitude Lite: The Real Virtue of Thankfulness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This Thursday is Thanksgiving here in the United States. It\u2019s a holiday dedicated to gratitude, and one in which we often trot out expressions of thankfulness.<\/p>\n<p>But how much is gratitude a part of our lives the other 364 days of the year? And even when we do think about gratitude at other times, does it admittedly often take a fairly superficial and fleeting form?<\/p>\n<p>On today\u2019s show, we\u2019re exploring the deeper, &#8220;harder&#8221; side of gratitude with my guest,&nbsp;Dr. Robert Emmons.&nbsp;Robert is a bona fide expert in his field &#8212; a professor of psychology at the University of California Davis who pioneered much of the research on the science of gratitude. Robert explains what gratitude is, its benefits, and how to cultivate more of it in our lives. He also shares why much of the content out there about gratitude is what he calls \u201cgratitude lite,\u201d and he makes the case that we need to see gratitude as the ancients saw it\u2014as a human virtue that requires a lifetime of intentional&nbsp;cultivation. We then explore the myths of gratitude out there, like the idea that counting your blessings can make you complacent. We end our show with some suggestions on how to nurture your gratitude daily, including some specific ideas to try on Thanksgiving.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This Thursday is Thanksgiving here in the United States. It\u2019s a holiday dedicated to gratitude, and one in which we often trot out expressions of thankfulness. But how much is gratitude a part of our lives the other 364 days of the year? 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