{"id":96454,"date":"2018-09-24T14:34:55","date_gmt":"2018-09-24T19:34:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/?p=96454"},"modified":"2026-10-02T09:23:00","modified_gmt":"2026-10-02T14:23:00","slug":"podcast-443-what-building-your-own-coffin-teaches-you-about-life-death-and-meaning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/character\/self-improvement\/podcast-443-what-building-your-own-coffin-teaches-you-about-life-death-and-meaning\/","title":{"rendered":"Podcast #443: What Building Your Own Coffin Teaches You About Life, Death, and Meaning"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\">When David Giffels was 50 years old and completely healthy, he decided to build his own coffin with his 81-year-old, master craftsman father. Why? Well, I ask him that on today\u2019s podcast. David Giffels is a writer who previously published a book of essays about growing up in the Rust Belt of Ohio in the 1970s. That title is called&nbsp;<i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B00DPM7YPE\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B00DPM7YPE&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=stucosuccess&amp;linkId=FSXA3GZUT5SFDAZ4\">The Hard Way on Purpose<\/a>.<\/i>&nbsp;In his latest book,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B074ZNVHY8\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B074ZNVHY8&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=stucosuccess&amp;linkId=FSXA3GZUT5SFDAZ4\"><i>Furnishing Eternity: A Father, a Son, a Coffin, and a Measure of Life<\/i><\/a>,&nbsp;he recounts the experience of building his own coffin with his father and the lessons about life, aging, and death that he picked up along the way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>We begin the show discussing why many in the Rust Belt live by the motto, &#8220;The Hard Way on Purpose,&#8221; and how it manifests itself in their undying loyalty to their sports teams that come up short year after year. 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