{"id":64089,"date":"2017-05-16T15:03:15","date_gmt":"2017-05-16T20:03:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/?p=64089"},"modified":"2026-10-12T10:27:33","modified_gmt":"2026-10-12T15:27:33","slug":"podcast-304-mentoring-boys-manhood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/social\/fatherhood\/podcast-304-mentoring-boys-manhood\/","title":{"rendered":"Podcast #304: The Lies of Manhood and How to Teach Young Men Its Truths"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Football is often seen as an incubator of rough and wild masculinity. But one former NFL lineman, turned church minister, turned high school football coach, sees football as a platform to teach young men how to be both tough and tender. My guest today&nbsp;on the podcast spent a season with this sage coach and walked away having learned what it really means to be a man, as well as built a stronger relationship with his father. His name is Jeffrey Marx and his Pulitzer Prize-winning book is&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B001H4R2T0\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B001H4R2T0&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=stucosuccess&amp;linkId=FSXA3GZUT5SFDAZ4\"><i>Season of Life: A Football Star, a Boy, a Journey to Manhood<\/i><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">Today<\/span><span class=\"s1\">&nbsp;on the show, Jeffrey talks about his relationship with retired NFL athlete and now minister and high school football coach Joe Ehrmann. Jeff begins by sharing what he learned from Joe and other NFL players about what it means to be a man during his stint as a ballboy for the Baltimore Colts in the 1970s. He then shares how Joe went from a party animal to an inner-city minister who focused on helping young men. We then discuss what Joe sees as the lies of masculinity in the popular culture and how they need to be replaced with strategic masculinity.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">We end our conversation talking about how coaching high school football ties into Joe\u2019s ministry to men and how Joe\u2019s philosophy on masculinity helped Jeffrey draw closer to his father.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Lots of great insights on this show, so be sure to take notes!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Football is often seen as an incubator of rough and wild masculinity. But one former NFL lineman, turned church minister, turned high school football coach, sees football as a platform to teach young men how to be both tough and tender. 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