{"id":63418,"date":"2017-04-11T12:31:05","date_gmt":"2017-04-11T17:31:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/?p=63418"},"modified":"2026-10-13T09:06:01","modified_gmt":"2026-10-13T14:06:01","slug":"podcast-294-art-charm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/social\/social-skills\/podcast-294-art-charm\/","title":{"rendered":"Podcast #294: Learning the Art of Charm"},"content":{"rendered":"

While men sometimes see developing their social skills as something superficial or unimportant, these skills are essential for success in business and life. Knowing how to interact and get along with others is how we can make friends, find love, and advance our career. My guest on the podcast today has spent the past ten years helping men become more socially dynamic through his in-person coaching services and his podcast The Jordan Harbinger Show<\/a>.<\/i> His name is Jordan Harbinger and today on the show Jordan I discuss why improving your social skills is so important and why many men often give it the short shrift. We then dig into the concept of social capital and why it might be even more vital to develop than financial capital. We end our conversation getting into brass tacks advice on how to become a social dynamo without having to be an extroverted \u201clife of the party\u201d cheeseball. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

While men sometimes see developing their social skills as something superficial or unimportant, these skills are essential for success in business and life. Knowing how to interact and get along with others is how we can make friends, find love, and advance our career. 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