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We often think of the difference between a boy and a man as a matter of age. But Brian Tome says that there can be 15-year-old men and 45-year-old boys, and that the real difference maker in being grown up isn’t a matter of the number of years you accumulate but the qualities, behaviors, and mindset you possess.<\/p>\n

Brian is a pastor and the author of The Five Marks of a Man<\/em><\/a>. Today on the show, Brian unpacks what he thinks are the marks of mature manhood. We talk about the need to have a vision and how life-giving hobbies can create that vision. Brian argues that manhood requires staking out a minority position, being part of a pack, and creating more than you consume. And we discuss the ways men can still be protectors in the 21st century.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We often think of the difference between a boy and a man as a matter of age. But Brian Tome says that there can be 15-year-old men and 45-year-old boys, and that the real difference maker in being grown up isn’t a matter of the number of years you accumulate but the qualities, behaviors, and […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":194666,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[502,156,42388],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-184305","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-character","category-podcast","category-self-improvement"],"featured_image_urls":{"large":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/1028-538x280.png","medium_large":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/1028-768x432.png","aom":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/1028-372x230.png","reactor-320":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/1028-320x180.png","reactor-640":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/1028-640x360.png"},"yoast_head":"\nPodcast #1,028: The 5 Marks of a Man | The Art of Manliness<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/character\/self-improvement\/podcast-1028-the-5-marks-of-a-man\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Podcast #1,028: The 5 Marks of a Man | The Art of Manliness\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"We often think of the difference between a boy and a man as a matter of age. 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