Comments on: How to Get the Respect You Deserve at Work http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/01/03/how-to-get-the-respect-you-deserve-at-work/ Men's Interests and Lifestyle Thu, 23 May 2013 17:08:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Smile http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/01/03/how-to-get-the-respect-you-deserve-at-work/comment-page-1/#comment-339831 Smile Wed, 06 Mar 2013 14:58:41 +0000 http://artofmanliness.com/?p=14125#comment-339831 Smile and focus on the good…you!

]]> By: Laila http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/01/03/how-to-get-the-respect-you-deserve-at-work/comment-page-1/#comment-332898 Laila Sat, 23 Feb 2013 00:36:38 +0000 http://artofmanliness.com/?p=14125#comment-332898 I would add: respect yourself (you are worth more than you think and definitely more than they think), but this is not be confused with being prideful/arrogant. That is definitely not good.

]]> By: Susan http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/01/03/how-to-get-the-respect-you-deserve-at-work/comment-page-1/#comment-307388 Susan Thu, 10 Jan 2013 22:42:09 +0000 http://artofmanliness.com/?p=14125#comment-307388 I’m glad you still have this up – especially that first bit! Once again, I got left out of a critical meeting. I know I’m on the opposite coast, but we DO have conference calling. I’ve been smacked down at a previous company for being ignorant of facts that were only shared during meetings I was not invited to; I’m a little sensitive.
Lighten up, indeed. It was an oversight, because we’re a startup and I’m siloed – like everyone else.

]]> By: Cindy http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/01/03/how-to-get-the-respect-you-deserve-at-work/comment-page-1/#comment-306486 Cindy Sun, 06 Jan 2013 04:31:21 +0000 http://artofmanliness.com/?p=14125#comment-306486 Good article, well written-
and to the point, great for us women too!
Thanks!

]]> By: Connor R. http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/01/03/how-to-get-the-respect-you-deserve-at-work/comment-page-1/#comment-306408 Connor R. Sat, 05 Jan 2013 03:40:36 +0000 http://artofmanliness.com/?p=14125#comment-306408 Wonderful article, as I have come to love from this site. One thing I would suggest, or alter I guess, is the bit on dressing up. In my industry (mechanics) we have uniforms. Everyone wears the same clothes day in and day out. But, I have noticed the way you wear your uniform can gain you the same type of respect. The guys at our shop who leave their shirts un-tucked, or wear the same dirty uniforms for a few days are always getting snapped at by our manager to tuck them in, go change, etc. Also, in a workplace wear everyone looks the same, the way you present yourself is also important. Keep your head up, shoulders back, not slouched over. Gives a better impression to your boss and your customers.

]]> By: Dustin http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/01/03/how-to-get-the-respect-you-deserve-at-work/comment-page-1/#comment-282861 Dustin Sun, 11 Nov 2012 20:46:36 +0000 http://artofmanliness.com/?p=14125#comment-282861 As surprising as it is, what you wear really does tell a lot about you. I told my wife, “I want to dress well so I will feel professional and that will come out in my work.”

I’ve experimented with it, wearing a v-neck and jeans (I work in an internet start-up so it’s pretty casual) and noticed I’m a little more lackadaisical with my work, whereas when I wear and modern fit and pressed button-down tucked in with nice khakis, I take greater pride in my work, as well as my relationships with co-workers.

]]> By: Jack http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/01/03/how-to-get-the-respect-you-deserve-at-work/comment-page-1/#comment-128804 Jack Sat, 22 Jan 2011 14:20:56 +0000 http://artofmanliness.com/?p=14125#comment-128804 I keep fumbling my words at work in front of managers. Sometimes when I do something wrong at work, I don’t know how to handle being called out on it. Some people handle making mistakes gracefully, and laugh at it and learn from it. I on the other hand criticize myself in my head and end up having a sour looking face because I make myself feel bad.

Can any of you guys give some tips or advice on how I can get over this?

]]> By: Mike http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/01/03/how-to-get-the-respect-you-deserve-at-work/comment-page-1/#comment-128501 Mike Mon, 17 Jan 2011 22:20:27 +0000 http://artofmanliness.com/?p=14125#comment-128501 #23-David Cassuto-

You are spot on! American government workplace culture has definitely been feminized, especially in law enforcement. Merit and good hard work on the toughest cases are no longer the keys to recognition or promotion: networking and relationships (including schmoozing and back-stabbing) are the keys!

Men who dare to be manly and speak up when necessary are neither appreciated nor valued; they are a threat to political correctness and wimp culture.

No wonder the big cases are being lost.

Stay manly, men!

]]> By: Jeff http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/01/03/how-to-get-the-respect-you-deserve-at-work/comment-page-1/#comment-128484 Jeff Mon, 17 Jan 2011 04:42:49 +0000 http://artofmanliness.com/?p=14125#comment-128484 Great advice, treat people with respect. You have to deposit respect before you can withdrawal it from others. Also dressing nice is an outward sign of respecting your employer and the opportunity. I could probably cut down on the potty mouth stuff though.

]]> By: james edward dillard http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/01/03/how-to-get-the-respect-you-deserve-at-work/comment-page-1/#comment-128421 james edward dillard Sat, 15 Jan 2011 18:18:18 +0000 http://artofmanliness.com/?p=14125#comment-128421 why only a few bites of sheet cake?

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