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	<title>Comments on: How to Get a Drink at a Busy Bar</title>
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		<title>By: B</title>
		<link>http://www.artofmanliness.com/2010/04/08/how-to-get-a-drink-at-a-busy-bar/comment-page-2/#comment-376593</link>
		<dc:creator>B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Apr 2013 21:08:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[1st. I bet people that don&#039;t tip wonder why they have to wait longer at a crowded bar. 
2nd. Most of the time as a bartender and have 3 rules when its busy. 1 Have your money ready 2. Know your order 3. Tip. Any 1 person must follow 2 out of the 3 rules to get a cocktail when the bar is full. Your tip doesnt mean that much to me if I can get you and your order out of the way in less then 30 seconds.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1st. I bet people that don&#8217;t tip wonder why they have to wait longer at a crowded bar.<br />
2nd. Most of the time as a bartender and have 3 rules when its busy. 1 Have your money ready 2. Know your order 3. Tip. Any 1 person must follow 2 out of the 3 rules to get a cocktail when the bar is full. Your tip doesnt mean that much to me if I can get you and your order out of the way in less then 30 seconds.</p>
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		<title>By: J.J. Vicars</title>
		<link>http://www.artofmanliness.com/2010/04/08/how-to-get-a-drink-at-a-busy-bar/comment-page-2/#comment-375279</link>
		<dc:creator>J.J. Vicars</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Apr 2013 22:46:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;the bartender is in charge of the bar. You are in his territory.&quot; And the paying customer is there for the bartender&#039;s convenience??? Give me that attitude and I take my business elsewhere.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;the bartender is in charge of the bar. You are in his territory.&#8221; And the paying customer is there for the bartender&#8217;s convenience??? Give me that attitude and I take my business elsewhere.</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Apr 2013 17:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;Every customer is your #1 priority.&quot;
Some people evidently do not understand how priority works...

It seems from the comments that people who work/ have worked in service agree with the article, and most of the rest don&#039;t.

To the latter I say this; your bartender/waiter does not exist to serve you, and when you walk into a bar for the first time they don&#039;t care about you.
Make them care, by showing you care about them.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Every customer is your #1 priority.&#8221;<br />
Some people evidently do not understand how priority works&#8230;</p>
<p>It seems from the comments that people who work/ have worked in service agree with the article, and most of the rest don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>To the latter I say this; your bartender/waiter does not exist to serve you, and when you walk into a bar for the first time they don&#8217;t care about you.<br />
Make them care, by showing you care about them.</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Apr 2013 08:11:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The first step to getting a drink at a busy bar is getting to the busy bar in the first place. I can&#039;t stand those who squeeze and jockey to get up to the bar rather than being patient and observant of others. Stepping respectfully out of the way of someone leaving the bar after ordering their drinks rather than squirming and circling like a vulture to get their spot is appropriate.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The first step to getting a drink at a busy bar is getting to the busy bar in the first place. I can&#8217;t stand those who squeeze and jockey to get up to the bar rather than being patient and observant of others. Stepping respectfully out of the way of someone leaving the bar after ordering their drinks rather than squirming and circling like a vulture to get their spot is appropriate.</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew Cole</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matthew Cole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Apr 2013 19:40:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tipping is a qualifier, not a differentiator... If you plan to order more than one drink at a busy bar, tipping is a must. Unless the tip is huge, there is not guarantee of better service. Seriously, if you don&#039;t want to tip, take the party to the house.

Being &quot;a regular&quot; is actually good advice. If you go out more than once in a blue moon, it would be helpful to only patronize a couple places that you enjoy. Even if you only stop in for one drink after work or before dinner - the rapport that you build will make you look like a hero if you can get the bartender to respond to you and your friends before anyone else.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tipping is a qualifier, not a differentiator&#8230; If you plan to order more than one drink at a busy bar, tipping is a must. Unless the tip is huge, there is not guarantee of better service. Seriously, if you don&#8217;t want to tip, take the party to the house.</p>
<p>Being &#8220;a regular&#8221; is actually good advice. If you go out more than once in a blue moon, it would be helpful to only patronize a couple places that you enjoy. Even if you only stop in for one drink after work or before dinner &#8211; the rapport that you build will make you look like a hero if you can get the bartender to respond to you and your friends before anyone else.</p>
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		<title>By: Shane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Apr 2013 16:19:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m amazed at the number of people on this site about being a gentleman who basically say they don&#039;t think they should have to tip.  You&#039;re right, you don&#039;t have to tip.  You also don&#039;t have to hold the door for a lady or treat her with respect, but a gentleman does those things without question because it&#039;s the right thing to do.  

To me, this same thing applies to tipping.  That person makes below minimum wage because their employers know they get tips.  Their performance of their job is essentially a &quot;pay for performance&quot; model - it&#039;s up to their customers to determine what they should be making.  If you don&#039;t tip them, they&#039;re making below minimum wage.  I tend to think of it like this - I&#039;m paying the menu price for the food or drink ordered.  I&#039;m paying the waiter/bartender for the service they&#039;re providing, which is generally responsiveness and attentiveness.  If they give me no service or terrible service, I have the right to not tip - I&#039;ve done that once in my life.  If they give me exceptional service, I may tip them 50%.  I generally consider a tip for a positive dining/drinking experience to be 20%.  I frequently go above that for service beyond what&#039;s expected, and rarely do I drop below 15%.  

If you don&#039;t believe waiters and waitresses deserve a tip, that&#039;s your option.  I think you have no business being on this site, and you ought to hang your head in shame. There&#039;s nothing wrong with being smart and conservative with your money, but nobody likes a tightwad.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m amazed at the number of people on this site about being a gentleman who basically say they don&#8217;t think they should have to tip.  You&#8217;re right, you don&#8217;t have to tip.  You also don&#8217;t have to hold the door for a lady or treat her with respect, but a gentleman does those things without question because it&#8217;s the right thing to do.  </p>
<p>To me, this same thing applies to tipping.  That person makes below minimum wage because their employers know they get tips.  Their performance of their job is essentially a &#8220;pay for performance&#8221; model &#8211; it&#8217;s up to their customers to determine what they should be making.  If you don&#8217;t tip them, they&#8217;re making below minimum wage.  I tend to think of it like this &#8211; I&#8217;m paying the menu price for the food or drink ordered.  I&#8217;m paying the waiter/bartender for the service they&#8217;re providing, which is generally responsiveness and attentiveness.  If they give me no service or terrible service, I have the right to not tip &#8211; I&#8217;ve done that once in my life.  If they give me exceptional service, I may tip them 50%.  I generally consider a tip for a positive dining/drinking experience to be 20%.  I frequently go above that for service beyond what&#8217;s expected, and rarely do I drop below 15%.  </p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t believe waiters and waitresses deserve a tip, that&#8217;s your option.  I think you have no business being on this site, and you ought to hang your head in shame. There&#8217;s nothing wrong with being smart and conservative with your money, but nobody likes a tightwad.</p>
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		<title>By: Srinivas Kari</title>
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		<dc:creator>Srinivas Kari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Mar 2013 16:31:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[All this seems fine in USA. In India, there is NO tipping culture. In fact, guests who look good and dress up are often the ones who get the most attention from the bartender. The people who look bad and are not dressed up are judged and treated &quot;differently&quot;.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All this seems fine in USA. In India, there is NO tipping culture. In fact, guests who look good and dress up are often the ones who get the most attention from the bartender. The people who look bad and are not dressed up are judged and treated &#8220;differently&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Harrison Bergeron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harrison Bergeron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2012 15:40:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[LOL, excellent article.  I&#039;m a chef at a bar &amp; grill, and I&#039;m sharing this with every bartender I know...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL, excellent article.  I&#8217;m a chef at a bar &amp; grill, and I&#8217;m sharing this with every bartender I know&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
		<link>http://www.artofmanliness.com/2010/04/08/how-to-get-a-drink-at-a-busy-bar/comment-page-2/#comment-112717</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 19:25:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for the advice, good stuff Chief! ;)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the advice, good stuff Chief! ;)</p>
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		<title>By: Ed</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 01:20:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I noticed another thing on this board. It seems that our european friends have all kinds of qualifiers on tipping. I guess its viewed as an American thing because we don&#039;t pay our help. Well I found that if you tip well you get good service, period. Even in Europe I tip. Sometimes the bartender will say they can&#039;t accept it, but the service is better for trying.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I noticed another thing on this board. It seems that our european friends have all kinds of qualifiers on tipping. I guess its viewed as an American thing because we don&#8217;t pay our help. Well I found that if you tip well you get good service, period. Even in Europe I tip. Sometimes the bartender will say they can&#8217;t accept it, but the service is better for trying.</p>
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