Comments on: The Virtuous Life: Frugality

By: chris

chris — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 20:45:09 +0000

First thing I love that you quoted Tyler Durden, I honestly just wrote that exact quote down yesterday after I finished the book. I think you would appreciate a lot of his other quotes. Ex. “If our father is our basis for God, and our fathers abandoned us, then what does that tell you about God?” Its a little extreme but I think it relates to the “normlessness.” If our idea of norm is our fathers which in most men is the case, that’s probably why men don’t feel a purpose or “mature” as you would say until they are a father. But what about the “generation raised by women.”(-Tyler Durden) What norm do we have? Does it then get defaulted to society’s which is either nothing or a version of Entourage?
Would love to hear your opinions, thanks.

By: [转] Benjamin Franklin’s List of 13 Virtues - As the deer

[转] Benjamin Franklin’s List of 13 Virtues - As the deer — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:58:26 +0000

[...] Frugality: Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself; i.e., waste nothing. “The Founding Fathers feared … that too much luxury made a nation weak. They would often point to the Greeks and Romans as examples of what happens to a nation when it lets prosperity go unchecked by temperance and frugality. John Adams often preached against effeminate luxuries. And although wealthy, Ben Franklin lived a relatively simple life. He made an effort to eat and dress plainly. Unfortunately, Americans have lost sight of the importance of frugality. For a generation of men who have grown up in a period of unprecedented affluence, living frugally seems down right silly and old fashioned. But if a man wishes to remain economically and emotionally independent, frugality is an essential virtue to develop.” [...]

By: Donna

Donna — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 04:43:45 +0000

Hey – just wanted you to know that I stumbled across your site and really enjoyed this article and some others around here!

I posted about your site on my blog as well!
http://momsfrugal.blogspot.com/2009/01/frugality-for-men.html

Great job here! Love it!
-I will look over your ebook and likely use it for my teen boys.
Blessings!
-Donna-

By: hogan

hogan — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 06:31:41 +0000

Hi,

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This website does stuff like track expenses, create a budget, etc. If you want to give it a try, visit http://www.finmind.com. It’s free and I am not making any money off of it (no ads). Send me any comments if you have feedback or suggestions.

Thanks,
Eugene

By: Eamonn Magrath

Eamonn Magrath — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 21:36:39 +0000

I have never saved. I will never save. I have nothing (in monetary terms). I have everything (in non-monetary terms) … where am I going wrong?

By: Brent Hodgson

Brent Hodgson — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 14:55:43 +0000

Great post.

Recently here in Australia, employees of several financiers have complained that they are pressured to “sell loans” to people that can’t afford to repay them.

Fortunately, savings here are (slightly) higher than in the USA.

By: John Michailidis

John Michailidis — Sat, 05 Apr 2008 03:29:13 +0000

I just stumbled upon your site and have found it to be a “breath of fresh air.” With society’s attempt at the emasculation of men, it’s good to find a site that celebrates men and manhood. Good job!

By: Rob O.

Rob O. — Wed, 02 Apr 2008 02:10:59 +0000

Credit cards in themselves are not evil. In fact, with the right card and some fierce determination, you can actualy make them work for you. My wife & I use our Citi Platinum Dividend card for virtually every purchase or payment we can so we can get the cashback dividends. But we never – ever – carry a balance. We behave as though it were one of those old-school AmEx cards that wouldn’t even allow a balance to roll over from one month to another.

I truly do believe that debt is the freedom killer. So many of our friends have rushed out and bought really prestigious newer homes that’re beautiful, yet they’re so far in debt with the mortgage that they can’t afford a bucket of paint to change anything up.

Conversely, my wife & I bought a dumpy, diamond in the rough, fixer-upper home in a decent, but far from upscale neighborhood. 12 years later, it’s unrecognizable! We’ve redone every room (to some degree), including an extensive overhaul of the kitchen and one of the bathrooms. We’re planning to gut & redo the master bath this Summer. Point is, the house was very low priced so we’ve been able to easily afford to do lots & lots of upgrading to make it into a very nice home. It’s still quite modest-sized – and features none of the vaulted ceilings or other trappings of the new McMansions – but we love it!

By: Parker Dutro

Parker Dutro — Tue, 01 Apr 2008 06:06:40 +0000

While some debt is unavoidable (if only temporarily) Bankruptcy whether resulting from sudden overwhelming medical expense or uncontrollable Starbucks addiction could be avoided in many cases by having 6 months to a year living expenses saved. It takes more discipline than most of us own to put that kind of financial security together, but it is quite possible for anyone who commits to living within their means. The problem is that we are not objective and honest when we discern what our means limit us to, and we therefore are more inclined to make lifestyle decisions that are beyond them.

By: Rodney Hampton

Rodney Hampton — Tue, 01 Apr 2008 04:17:58 +0000

I’m going to write in all caps because I think that everyone needs to get this through their head: DEBT = SLAVERY

All of us are slaves to the banks. Let that sink in. Everything you see, pretty much, is not owned outright. A lot of it has been purchased with consumer credit card debt, mortgages and second mortgages. The boats, the cars, the SUVs, computers, playstations, and the houses are all being purchased on somewhere between 5% and 25% interest. Very few people pay cash on the barrelhead these days.

I worked for a commercial bank for over 2 years. Banks don’t like to be undercollateralized. They’ll jack up your rate, cut down your access to credit, demand more collateral or interest when they think you’re a risk. God forbid you miss a payment or bounce a check. If you don’t have money, they’ll charge you more! Here’s a particularly funny comedy routine about this ironic situation:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rpaCQKJpE9k

And, as we can see from the most recent economic news, the banks live by different economic rules than we do.

There is no such thing as good debt. You may think leverage is a good thing, as long as you’re on the right side of the lever. But conditions in the marketplace can change rapidly. And — unless you’re like Donald Trump — you won’t be able to negotiate when your creditors come calling or it’s time to face a margin call.

I’m on a mission to pay back all of my debt within the next 20 years. I may get lucky and get everything paid off in 10 if I transition from a well paying IT job into an even better paying job at a big law firm. Most people aren’t as lucky as me.

This consumer culture is sucking us dry. The inflationary policies of the federal reserve are a disincentive on savings. The concept that there is good debt flies in the face of centuries of human wisdom.

Reject consumerism. Take advantage of the 401k and, if you’re lucky like me, the employer matching funds. Invest in precious metals or foreign currencies like the Swiss Franc as a hedge against inflation. Teach your kids that DEBT = SLAVERY. Get off the grid. Live frugally.